Do you have what it takes to be a coaching leader? A coaching leader is someone who encourages another person to identify his or her goals, discover the resources available to pursue those goals, develop action plans together, and then walk along beside that person in the process of achieving the person’s goals. A coaching leader can apply these skills in working with groups and teams as well, multiplying his or her impact as a coach by including others in the process. A coaching leader is strong in the elements that Daniel Goleman attributes to emotional intelligence: Self-awareness. Self-regulation. Motivation. Empathy. Social skills. These are skills that can be learned once a person understands his or her own emotional intelligence profile. The more that you, as a leader, can manage each of these areas, the higher your emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence is essential to be an effective coaching leader. In ad...
The first real “job” for which I was paid was as a math tutor. Considering that I failed Calculus in college, this is rather ironic. I was a junior in high school and my math teacher recommended me as a tutor for an eighth grader. The parents paid me ten dollars a session. As I began working with this young man, I realized pretty quickly that he already knew what he was supposed to do. He understood the calculations and was probably a better math student than I was! The key was focus. He needed someone who would just sit with him, respond to his work, and provide encouragement. I did not need to be an expert; I just needed to be there. I find myself in the same situation very often as a leadership coach. As I talk with a client, I discover that not only does the person have the best knowledge of the situation we are discussing, but he or she has some ideas about how to address it in a p...