“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.” --Ephesians 4:2, NIV It happened decades ago, but I still remember the incident. Another student and I were enrolled in a graduate program at a seminary. We were enjoying the program, but we had some similar questions to ask the director of the program. We set up an appointment and showed up promptly. We asked our questions in an open, friendly, concise manner. What I remember most about the conversation was the program director spent most of the time avoiding eye contact, browsing through papers on his desk, and grudgingly offering some clarity about our inquiries. How often do you find yourself in those types of conversations? You want to share something with another person, and they spend their time looking at their phone or changing the subject. How’s does that make you feel? And to be honest, have you ever s...
Is it possible that what we have learned about our faith can get in the way of our faith development? Much of my Doctor of Ministry research was informed by the work of James Fowler. Fowler suggested that are stages of faith development which connect to cognitive and emotional development. In his book, Stages of Faith: The Psychology of Human Development and the Quest for Meaning , Fowler outlined how individuals construct meaning and trust across their lifespan. Based on research, this framework spans from childhood's intuitive, literal beliefs to mature, self-transcending faith. One of the things that we must wrestle with in considering Fowler’s model is determining how what we absorbed in the earlier stages of life either contribute to our ongoing faith development or gets in the way. For example, as a child and teenager, I learned a high regard for the Bible, the scripture of my faith. I still remember passages that co...