A friend got very upset with me once when I said, “I don’t treat all of my children the same way.” He thought this was very unfair, but I tried to explain that my desire was to relate to them in a way that was appropriate to them as individuals. I am sure that I did not always succeed, but I realized that each of them was unique--the needs of one were very different from the needs of another. I loved, and still love, all of them but the important thing was that I attempted to provide what I thought each one needed. So here is my secret: I don’t coach all of my coaching clients in the same way! Why? Because they are individuals with different needs, experiences, and capacities. Each person has their own particular way of processing experiences, learning, and acting. If I fail to take that into account, our coaching relationship will not be effective. For example, one client may k...
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