Starting out in any field is not easy, but ministry has
its own challenges. Most congregations
expect that their new pastor or staff member will “hit the ground running” and
be ready to deal with both the routine and the unexpected tasks encountered. Too often, our ministers’ preparation has not
taught them how to reach out to others for support, guidance, or collegial
relationships.
My recent experiences with young ministers indicate that
most ministers in their first call—whether to a church as solo pastor or to a
staff position—not only want but are eager for someone to become their
mentor. Although the young minister may
not use that term, he or she would welcome a relationship with a more
experienced clergy person who would give them good feedback and even
suggestions about their work.
When a church calls a new minister to staff, especially
if that person is right out of seminary, the senior pastor or head of staff
should expect to become a mentor for that person. I am sure that some pastor is reading this
and saying, “Just what I need: another thing on my plate!” I will grant that being a mentor takes time,
but it also takes patience, a teacher’s heart, and the ability to listen
well. The reward for the mentor is
helping a brother or sister in Christ become established and competent in
ministry. If for no other reason, good
mentoring can increase staff retention and health.
What about a young minister who is the solo pastor in his
or her congregation? If the denomination
does not provide a mentoring program, the young minister may need to seek out a
mentor. This person might be the pastor
of a local church, a retired minister, or a judicatory leader. This support is also available through
organizations such as Pinnacle Leadership Associates that provide coaching for
ministers at each stage of their profession or ministry. Seminaries are taking a more proactive role to
meet this need and developing programs to support the minister in his or her
first call.
A mentoring relationship can benefit both the protégé and
the mentor, but the greatest benefit is to the congregation that the young
minister serves. Congregations would do
well to give thought to ways to provide this type of support. There are a number of freshly minted minister
who are looking for a Barnabas to walk alongside them.
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