One of the most significant things I have learned in
recent years is a new way of looking at missions. Some excellent mentors—Eliot Roberts, Pat
Anderson, Rob Nash, Mart Gray, Steve Street, Mike Young and others--have shown
me that we must respect the humanity of those with whom we minister. I have too often seen ministry as something
that I or my group “do for” someone else without any regard for whether they
want “to be done unto.” They are not
recipients by partners.
Dave Gibbons follows this perspective in The Monkey and The
Fish: Liquid Leadership for a Third-
Culture Church. If we are to mesh
smoothly as ministry partners with others, we must observe certain
principles. Gibbons outlines them in
this way.
First, we must listen more than we speak. This is a skill that is often difficult to
learn!
Second, we must believe that “the locals” know more than
we do and learn from them. They live
there; they know the situation better than we do and have wisdom to share.
Third, we must understand that Jesus is already
there. In some way, God has already
expressed God’s love for these people, even if we cannot readily identify that
work.
Fourth, we must be open to redeeming and giving new meaning
to cultural practices or customs even if we do not understand them or may be
uncomfortable with them. Much of the “baggage”
we bring with us has nothing to do with the Gospel.
Fifth, we must respect the forms and practices of a given
culture. This means learning both the
verbal and nonverbal languages of people.
Sixth, we must recognize that the world outside our doors
has a much higher regard for Christ than for Christianity, especially as they
have seen it practiced by us.
Although some of these principles may seem harsh and
critical, take a few minutes to reflect on them. If your experience is anything like mine, you
will identify ways that you have violated most if not all of these at some
time.
Gibbons seems to be saying, “It’s not all about us.” There is a great big world of people who can
teach us much. If we will enter into
their cultures with humility and love, we can open not only doors but hearts as
well.
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