Recently I wrote a blog on bi-vocational ministry that was picked up by ethicsdaily.com. I received several
responses including one from a friend in another state who gave me permission
to share his own experience. We agreed
that I would delete specifics to assure anonymity.
A couple of years
ago [my wife] lost her job suddenly when our local hospital closed, taking away
more than half of our household income and our insurance. Long story
short, she is now working and drawing early retirement and we are doing just
fine. But in the meantime, I got a job as a part-time driver for a motor
coach operator, having operated heavy equipment as a teen with my grandfather
and driven thousands of miles in a church bus…as most of us have.
Out of the blue
about two years ago, a voice just told me to call [name of company] and ask
about part-time employment. I don’t always know what to call “the voice
of God,” but it was providential without a doubt.
My combined salary
and expenditures at [name of church] is [specific amount] and has been for 8
years. I have turned down raise offers until we had our building debt
paid off. And, given our church budget, I still make well above average
for our size. Not complaining.
At any rate, the
job with [name of company] has not only supplemented our income, but I have
thoroughly enjoyed working in the “real world” (as both our grandfathers would
have put it). I did have to come to terms in my own mind about the truth
of my now bivocational status, but it really was a short trip and, frankly, I
wouldn’t go back if the church offered to meet the combined salaries of both
jobs.
I wish I had
discovered earlier the freedom, security and balance that my bi-vocational
status gives me. And, I feel good…and our church leaders feel good…that
my financial needs are met without overburdening our church budget.
I want no praise
for my story but I told in detail so you can share anonymously with others who
might seek your advice/encouragement on these matters.
To them I would
say…and saluting OUR mutual past….”Come on in boys and girls! The water’s
FINE!”
Of course, bi-vocationality is not for everyone, but this is a helpful testimony about one person's experience. My friend offered
to have a personal conversation with anyone considering the bi-vocational
option. If you are interested, please
contact me at ircelharrison@gmail.com
and I will make the connection.
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